Friday, September 12, 2025

At What Point Does Your Offense Become My Death Sentence?

If Offense Justifies Assassination, Then Freedom of Speech Is Already Dead



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There’s one question that has been burning in me since Charlie Kirk’s assassination: to what point do we allow ourselves to be offended before we lose self-control?

It’s not an easy question, because I’ve been there. I’ve been offended countless times — in debates about Christianity and Islam, in discussions about politics, religion, and morality. People have mocked what I believe in, laughed at my faith, and tried to tear down everything I stand for. And yes, it hurts. But here’s the truth: being offended does not give me the right to destroy someone else’s life.

Yet that is exactly what happened to Charlie Kirk.




The Slippery Slope of Offense


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We’ve all seen it play out. People clip 30 seconds of a video out of context and spread it online. Then comes the mockery, the name-calling, the attacks on family. After that, the false accusations, the reputational smears, the loss of jobs, the collapse of credibility. And all of this, not because the person committed a crime, but because they dared to speak words that triggered someone.

So here’s the question: at what point is offense ever enough to justify assassination?

Charlie Kirk didn’t just die as a commentator or a political figure. He died as somebody’s child. Somebody’s husband. Somebody’s father. Somebody’s friend. Somebody’s boss. A human being — murdered because someone was offended.




Who Gets to Rejoice?


Let’s not pretend we didn’t see it. The people who rejoiced at his death weren’t all, but a disturbing majority came from specific circles:

Liberal and democratic individuals, black and white alike.

The LGBTQ community — some, not all.

The Muslim community — again, not all, but many.


We saw the harsh comments directed at Kirk and his family. And whether you agreed with his politics or not, the reaction revealed something deeper: people have lost the ability to separate disagreement from dehumanization.

Because if Charlie Kirk was really all the names they labeled him — racist, bigot, hateful, dangerous — do you honestly think people like Candace Owens, Piers Morgan, Donald Trump or even other prominent public figures would have worked with him? Absolutely not. These are individuals who guard their reputations carefully. They collaborated with him because he stood for free speech. He knew the difference between free speech and hate speech — a difference many today seem unwilling to recognize.




Dialogue or Destruction?

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And so I ask again: what is the point of dialogue and debate if the end result is not conversation, but persecution? What’s the point of debating if your opponent doesn’t want to exchange ideas, but to cancel, smear, and eventually silence you?

Debating is supposed to be the battleground of ideas, not the battlefield of lives. It’s supposed to test opinions, perspectives, and yes — even truths. But we’ve reached a point where even speaking truth can get you killed.

Some people talk about “my truth.” Let me be blunt: there is no such thing as “my truth.” There is truth — and there are opinions. And when society treats truth as an offense, we have not only lost free speech; we have cheapened humanity itself.




The Awakening



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But here’s the strange, miraculous twist. Out of Kirk’s death, something is happening: young people are waking up. They are realizing that if freedom of speech can be assassinated in broad daylight, then no one is safe. They are questioning, debating, and pushing back against the culture of offense.

It’s a tragic irony that it took a death for people to realize this, but sometimes truth only rises when silence becomes unbearable.




Where Do We Draw the Line?




Charlie Kirk didn’t die because of hate. He died because someone couldn’t handle the truth. And now the real question isn’t about him anymore — it’s about us.

At what point do we decide offense is worth destroying reputations?

At what point do we decide offense is worth ruining families?

At what point do we decide offense is worth taking lives?


Because once offense justifies persecution, freedom of speech is not only fragile — it’s already dead.




Final Word



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Charlie Kirk’s death was not just an assassination of a man. It was the assassination of free speech. And unless we learn to be comfortable with being offended — even when it hurts, even when we hate it — we will keep killing debate, killing humanity, and killing the very freedom that makes us human.

The question still remains: to what point will we let offense rule us?


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