Grief is strange when it comes for someone you never knew. It knocks at your door, not as a familiar face but as a shadow cast by the ones who weep beside you. Today, I lost my uncle. A man whose name I barely knew, whose life was lived in places I have never been. From Congo to abroad, back to Congo, and then Mali—his journey was vast, yet I only learned of it after his final breath.
He was not sick. There was no warning. A heart attack stole him away, leaving behind a son older than me and a baby whose name and gender I do not even know. The news came suddenly, carried through the voice of my mother’s youngest sister. A call filled with disbelief, breaking the silence of an ordinary day with an irreversible truth. My uncle was gone.
My mother cried. And though I did not know him, I cried because she did. Because grief is not just about who we lose—it’s about who is left behind to mourn. His sisters, all of them, weeping for the brother they loved. Still mourning an aunt who passed just three months ago, now crushed under the weight of another loss.
I sat there, feeling the sadness settle into the spaces between us. I wondered what kind of man he was, what dreams he chased, what stories he never got to tell. A stranger in blood, yet his passing left a mark. Because even when we do not know the ones who leave, their absence shapes the ones who stay.
Death has a way of making us pause. Today, I paused. For a man I never met, but whose loss was deeply felt.
Rest well, Uncle.🕊️
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